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I’m Stella, Author & Publisher of 40 Flirty & Feisty Romance Novels. I’ve been married to my too-hot-to-handle, sexy husband for over 23 years, we have two adult children to God’s glory and live in London, UK. My romance stories feature sexy heroes who have hearts and souls and curvy heroines who are smart and know what they want. My lively, flawed characters who on their quest to find love will elevate your pulse rate, make your heart skip here & there, so that you’ll laugh, shed a tear sometimes and gasp for breath as their story unfolds. If an emotionally intense happy-ever-after is what you want coupled with a sprinkling of life lessons, turn to chapter one now & start reading. When I'm not writing, I'm having a laugh watching movies with my honey-boo, swimming like a star fish, or on mom duties with my grown-ups, or praising God in my own corner of the world. I dare you to read any or all of my steamy romance stories. I’ll love to hear from you.

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Friday, 10 April 2020

#Bride from #Africa ~ #AngolaBrides #AfricanBrides #Wedding





Hello Romance Lovers, I'm back with Brides From Africa after a long break.

I hope you are keeping busy while staying indoors due to the COVID 19 lockdown. 


This week, I have brought you Bride From Angola in central Africa. I found the traditional wedding custom exciting and unique. I hope you do too.

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Angola is a country located on the western Atlantic Coast of Central Africa. See the African map below. It has many neighbours including Namibia, Democratic Republic of Congo, Zambia and Republic of Congo.


Traditional Angolan Wedding Ceremony:



Angolan traditional marriage ceremonies vary from tribe to tribe. To demonstrate his willingness to marry their daughter and desire to be accepted into her family, the groom works in the bride’s father’s fields, or farms. 



In addition, he also performs various household chores for the bride’s mother as part of the traditional wedding practice.




Once the bride's family approves of the groom, an older woman from the groom's family starts training the bride on how to be a good wife.



During and after an Angolan traditional wedding, the Wedding consultant plays a prominent role.

On the actual day of the wedding, the wedding consultant carries the bride on her back to the groom’s house. However, in some cases, if she can’t physically carry the bride then she walks with her to the groom’s home.




The wedding consultant organizes the engagement, carries the bride to the wedding chamber, checks up on the couple the morning after their first night of marriage to make sure everything is well with the newly-wedded couple.


According to Angolan customary weddings, the groom’s family gives gifts to the bride’s family. For a groom who has a good source of income, he presents clothing and other gifts to the bride and her family in lieu of working in the farms, fields and around the house.





The groom has a duty to prepare the matrimonial bed. He spreads leaves from the negwelulu tree as these leaves are believed to intensify sexual excitement.


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After the wedding ceremony there is a lot of merrymaking, singing, dancing with lots of food and drink served to the enjoyment of the guests.


Interestingly, after the wedding, the groom and his new mother-in-law are not allowed to meet again until after the couple’s first child is born.



Read more about  Traditional Angolan Marriage at Africanweddingtraditions.com

Photos are courtesy of Google.co.uk and Globalvoice.org

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Thursday, 13 February 2020

#Wedding ~ Why Do You Need A #Prenup?





Wedding ~ Do You Need A Prenup Agreement?



Hello, 

Tighten your seat belt because it's another emotional therapy time on Advice Corner.

Last week, I heard an engaged couple arguing about getting a prenup agreement prior to their wedding. 

The groom-to-be is an entrepreneur with assets and a sizable bank account and the bride-to-be is out of work and has no money. But she sacrificed a lot by leaving her family & friends to move across continents to be with him. So, the guy wanted his bride-to-be to sign a prenup. She was upset, furious and rightly so in my opinion.

For those who don't know, a prenup is a marital agreement that states what will happen in case a couple gets divorced.

To me, getting a prenuptial agreement before you get married is the craziest thing ever! 

Are you out of your mind?


Marriage is not to be taken lightly. If you cannot trust your fiancé/fiancée to stay with you forever, or if you think your partner can ruin your finances in the future, then end your engagement now!


For engaged couples who feel the need to get this document signed in case they get divorced in the future, I say have a rethink.

Whether or not you agree, Prenup casts a dark cloud around your marriage.

In my opinion, a prenup contract is a double-edged sword that will eventually hurt your marriage. Most likely, you will get divorced because you wished for it by signing the prenup agreement before your wedding even began.

Listen! On your wedding day, you vow to love each other till your lives end. You exchange wedding rings as a symbol of a love that knows no end.



Then, how can you also sign a document that states that in case your marriage fails, you will leave with your own wealth????

That's crazy! I don't care how rich one of you is, if you feel the need to sign a prenup: 

Let me tell you what it implies;

1. You do not TRUST your partner.

2. You are not ready to SHARE all your worldly goods with your life partner.

3. Material things are of great concern to you more than the need to take a leap of FAITH with the person you say you want to spend the rest of your life with.



4. You have serious doubts about your ability to stay and battle through tough times ahead.

5. You are a fair-weather spouse and therefore unreliable.

6. The LOVE you have for your spouse is not DEEP enough and it is questionable.

7. The prenup is your get-away card from your marriage. 
The moment you sign the agreement, your brain, already wired for escape, caves in when tough times pop up because you know you will walk away with your wealth intact. Before long, you are walking into marriage number three or four.

8. Lastly, it indicates, you see an end date for your marriage.

Honestly, if you still have the urge to get a prenup agreement before your wedding day, you should NOT get married.

Flip the coin for a minute. If your partner is richer and wants you to sign a prenup, how will you feel?

Finally, remember you cannot say the words, 'I do' with an expiration date for your marriage in mind.

Try my emotional therapy tips on my Advice Corner and you will see deeper bonds form between you and your wife/husband through God's grace.

I hope you connect emotionally with your husband or wife so  you can experience a more fulfilling and loving bliss in your marriage.



Pictures are courtesy of Google.com & Interracial marriage on Google


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A speed-dating event involves 2 strangers from 2 different continents. They’ve got six short weeks to make the biggest decision of their lives!
To date.
Get undressed &
Get engaged.
Or
Break up.
And go their separate ways. There is no second chance.

Nigerian nurse, Ola Gowon has no man who whispers sweet nothing in her ears at night or one who loves her for herself. Hopeful about the future, she shows up at the speed-dating event in Canada to find out her blind date has the exact attributes she stated she did not want in the guy of her dreams.  What will it take for her to find the man who will rock her world?

After losing hope of ever finding the woman of his dreams, heroic fireman, Liam Thomas shows up at the speed-dating event to find there has been a mix up. How else can someone explain why the woman standing in front of him as his blind date is the exact opposite of what he said he needed?

But when they start dating, differences erupt, jealousy rears its head and their hearts are stirred in ways they did not imagine.

Will Liam and Ola choose each other to save their needy hearts?


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