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I’m Stella, Author & Publisher of 40 Flirty & Feisty Romance Novels. I’ve been married to my too-hot-to-handle, sexy husband for over 23 years, we have two adult children to God’s glory and live in London, UK. My romance stories feature sexy heroes who have hearts and souls and curvy heroines who are smart and know what they want. My lively, flawed characters who on their quest to find love will elevate your pulse rate, make your heart skip here & there, so that you’ll laugh, shed a tear sometimes and gasp for breath as their story unfolds. If an emotionally intense happy-ever-after is what you want coupled with a sprinkling of life lessons, turn to chapter one now & start reading. When I'm not writing, I'm having a laugh watching movies with my honey-boo, swimming like a star fish, or on mom duties with my grown-ups, or praising God in my own corner of the world. I dare you to read any or all of my steamy romance stories. I’ll love to hear from you.

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Saturday 15 January 2011

HOW TO TALK TO YOUR SPOUSE II

Yes, so we continue our topic on 'How To Talk To Your Spouse'.
Now consider this scenario; You're not in the mood to speak to your spouse for a thousand and one reasons e.g. You're upset with him because you don't think he or she is doing enough to help with house chores, works too hard, isn't providing enough etc. While you're seething with annoyance, your spouse, unaware of your mood, begins to chat excitedly about their favourite topic; football, work, recent shopping experience etc. And you sit there reading a book you're not interested in or keep your eyes glued to television, totally ignoring your partner. Or you may murmur, 'Hmmm...eh...oh...' as a standard response. Eventually, your spouse may realize that you're not in the mood to chat. And you think in your heart, 'Ahhh, finally, he's understood that am not interested in speaking...'

As a spouse who has been 'turned down' by his or her uninterested spouse, I think you should seek to find out what is eating your spouse up. A good question will be, 'Hey babe! (even if she is 40yrs old!!! Women love to feel girlish!) why are you upset?' Her response maybe silence at first. But if you pay her adequate attention, move closer, give her a peck on the cheek or just simply sit beside her and run your fingers along her thighs, her anger will come tumbling out in a rush of words... And there, you can talk through it and resolve it.

Th same formula works with handling your grumpy or moody husband. What he desires is your undivided attention, prodding, loving and treating him like the baby he is!!!

Now off you go and make your relationship work for you.

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