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I’m Stella, Author & Publisher of 40 Flirty & Feisty Romance Novels. I’ve been married to my too-hot-to-handle, sexy husband for over 23 years, we have two adult children to God’s glory and live in London, UK. My romance stories feature sexy heroes who have hearts and souls and curvy heroines who are smart and know what they want. My lively, flawed characters who on their quest to find love will elevate your pulse rate, make your heart skip here & there, so that you’ll laugh, shed a tear sometimes and gasp for breath as their story unfolds. If an emotionally intense happy-ever-after is what you want coupled with a sprinkling of life lessons, turn to chapter one now & start reading. When I'm not writing, I'm having a laugh watching movies with my honey-boo, swimming like a star fish, or on mom duties with my grown-ups, or praising God in my own corner of the world. I dare you to read any or all of my steamy romance stories. I’ll love to hear from you.

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Tuesday 15 June 2021

Do You Know Your Role In Your #Family? - #Marriedlife


Hello Romance Lovers, 

It's great to be back with Advice Corner today.

I have been super busy for a few major reasons:

1. It was an exciting release month (in May) as my hot romance book: Mr. Stranger ~ A BWWM Curvy Girl Romance stayed on Amazon #1 New Release for 30 days!!!

Can you believe that? I feel really blessed and I give all the glory to God. If you have bought my New Release, read it, rated it or shared my post, Thank You.

And...Mr. Stranger has been Amazon #3 Best Seller. Today, it's Amazon #6 Best Seller! 
What can I say? Thank you.

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2. I started writing a new romance hot story!!!

3. I have been shooting videos for my YouTube channel.

Today, I'm blogging about one of the habit that causes conflict in Marriage.

You know by now I'm passionate about sharing tips to help you thrive in your marriage or relationship.

1. "Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord." Ephesians 5: 22.

Look, I'm not going to lie, I struggle with this sometimes. 

My question is why is it such a challenge to submit to our husbands in the 21st Century? 

i. I think we need to remove our pride, 
ii. Listen more and, 
iii. Be more cooperative instead of headstrong.
iv. Speak with respect to our husbands even when we are upset, don't agree with him or angry.

Going forward, let us continue to pray for grace and to practice submission with humility.

Let us practice submission and persuasion until we achieve it.

2. Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them... He that loves his wife, loves himself. 
Ephesians 5:25 &28.

Are you listening to that, 21st Century husbands? 

i. Loving your wives irrespective of how they behave is your duty. It is not something you should take lightly. 
ii. Be kind when you speak to your wife even when you are upset. Swearing at your wife is off limits.
iii. Do not under any circumstance raise up your hands to beat your wife. Why? Because you're beating yourself. A man who fears God and knows he will one day give an account of what he has done with his life will not bring doom on himself by hitting his wife.

3. Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord. Ephesians 6: 1

i. Teaching your children to do as they are told bring blessings upon their lives, so don't let your children get away with disobeying you. 
ii. Don't give up on trying to shape the leaders of tomorrow into the best people they can be. 
iii. If you are struggling to raise obedient children, pray and don't give up.
iv: When your children do things right, praise them and pray for them. Sow blessed words into your children's lives.
v. Don't curse your children. Words are powerful. The power of life and death is in the tongue... Prov 18: 21.

As a mum-of-two young adults, praise God, I always say that raising children is the most difficult job in the world. You can't truly succeed without God's help. Ask Him for help.

4. Fathers, do not provoke your children, or they will become discouraged. Eph 6: 4

i. Fathers can be excessively harsh, sometimes. As much as you want to discipline your children to make sure they become exceptional  leaders, do not push your children to their breaking points. 
ii. Know when to apply the brakes and correct them in love.
We, as parents struggle with this one especially when the children are disobedient. Ask for grace.

5. Servants, obey your earthly masters in everything. Do it with sincerity of heart. Eph 6: 5.

There are some workers who only do their jobs when their bosses are around. Once their bosses turn their backs, the workers spend their time idling away. Your bigger boss is God, so work to please him.

In conclusion, whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters.

Anyone who does wrong will be repaid for their wrongs, and there is no favouritism.

I pray for God's grace and peace to be multiplied in your family in Jesus Christ Holy name, Amen.

When I'm not writing a new book, I'm busy shooting YouTube videos for my DearStellaTV channel. Click below to watch p 4.

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Check out Flirty& Feisty Contemporary and Interracial Romance Novels include:
Mr. Stranger
Hot Chase 
Choose Me
Longing for You
Irresistible Driver
Christmas Desire
Tempted by the Princes – Book 1
Tempted by the Princess – Book 2
Hooked by one Curvy Girl – Book 1
Hooked by one Curvy Girl – Book 2
Naughty Promise
Christmas Seduction
Irresistible Passion
“Shocking Affair”
Guilty of Love
Your Christmas Gift
All of Me
“You’re Mine”
Enticed Forever
Naked Attraction
His Ring
Forbidden Dance
Red Velvet Rose
Tempting Desire
Seduced Hearts
Stolen Kisses (Books 1 & 2)
Wild Whispers
Love at Christmas
Husband to Rent
Stolen Valentine Kiss (Holiday Series #1)
Kiss My Lips (Holiday Series #2)
The Historical & Paranormal Romance novels include:
Royal Cowries (Cowries Series #1)
His Choice (Cowries Series #2)

 You will laugh, cry, get an emotional thrill and drool with suspense.



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