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I’m Stella Eromonsere-Ajanaku, publisher of over 30 sizzling romance books. I’ve been married to my sexy hubby for 20yrs plus, we have two grown-ups and we live in London, UK. My passion is writing Interracial & Multicultural Romance Novels that feature sexy heroes with good hearts & independent, feisty heroines who jump out of the pages of my books. Their chemistry is hot! You will laugh, cry & drool with suspense until the end. If an emotionally intense happy-ever-after is what you want, start reading any of my books now.

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Thursday, 13 February 2020

#Wedding ~ Why Do You Need A #Prenup?





Wedding ~ Do You Need A Prenup Agreement?



Hello, 

Tighten your seat belt because it's another emotional therapy time on Advice Corner.

Last week, I heard an engaged couple arguing about getting a prenup agreement prior to their wedding. 

The groom-to-be is an entrepreneur with assets and a sizable bank account and the bride-to-be is out of work and has no money. But she sacrificed a lot by leaving her family & friends to move across continents to be with him. So, the guy wanted his bride-to-be to sign a prenup. She was upset, furious and rightly so in my opinion.

For those who don't know, a prenup is a marital agreement that states what will happen in case a couple gets divorced.

To me, getting a prenuptial agreement before you get married is the craziest thing ever! 

Are you out of your mind?


Marriage is not to be taken lightly. If you cannot trust your fiancé/fiancée to stay with you forever, or if you think your partner can ruin your finances in the future, then end your engagement now!


For engaged couples who feel the need to get this document signed in case they get divorced in the future, I say have a rethink.

Whether or not you agree, Prenup casts a dark cloud around your marriage.

In my opinion, a prenup contract is a double-edged sword that will eventually hurt your marriage. Most likely, you will get divorced because you wished for it by signing the prenup agreement before your wedding even began.

Listen! On your wedding day, you vow to love each other till your lives end. You exchange wedding rings as a symbol of a love that knows no end.



Then, how can you also sign a document that states that in case your marriage fails, you will leave with your own wealth????

That's crazy! I don't care how rich one of you is, if you feel the need to sign a prenup: 

Let me tell you what it implies;

1. You do not TRUST your partner.

2. You are not ready to SHARE all your worldly goods with your life partner.

3. Material things are of great concern to you more than the need to take a leap of FAITH with the person you say you want to spend the rest of your life with.



4. You have serious doubts about your ability to stay and battle through tough times ahead.

5. You are a fair-weather spouse and therefore unreliable.

6. The LOVE you have for your spouse is not DEEP enough and it is questionable.

7. The prenup is your get-away card from your marriage. 
The moment you sign the agreement, your brain, already wired for escape, caves in when tough times pop up because you know you will walk away with your wealth intact. Before long, you are walking into marriage number three or four.

8. Lastly, it indicates, you see an end date for your marriage.

Honestly, if you still have the urge to get a prenup agreement before your wedding day, you should NOT get married.

Flip the coin for a minute. If your partner is richer and wants you to sign a prenup, how will you feel?

Finally, remember you cannot say the words, 'I do' with an expiration date for your marriage in mind.

Try my emotional therapy tips on my Advice Corner and you will see deeper bonds form between you and your wife/husband through God's grace.

I hope you connect emotionally with your husband or wife so  you can experience a more fulfilling and loving bliss in your marriage.



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by

Stella Eromonsere-Ajanaku

Release Date: 28th January 2020

Genre: Contemporary Romance/Interracial/BWWM

Pages: 160 (Paperback)

Word Count: 34K

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 A Flirty & Feisty Romance Novel ~


A speed-dating event involves 2 strangers from 2 different continents. They’ve got six short weeks to make the biggest decision of their lives!
To date.
Get undressed &
Get engaged.
Or
Break up.
And go their separate ways. There is no second chance.

Nigerian nurse, Ola Gowon has no man who whispers sweet nothing in her ears at night or one who loves her for herself. Hopeful about the future, she shows up at the speed-dating event in Canada to find out her blind date has the exact attributes she stated she did not want in the guy of her dreams.  What will it take for her to find the man who will rock her world?

After losing hope of ever finding the woman of his dreams, heroic fireman, Liam Thomas shows up at the speed-dating event to find there has been a mix up. How else can someone explain why the woman standing in front of him as his blind date is the exact opposite of what he said he needed?

But when they start dating, differences erupt, jealousy rears its head and their hearts are stirred in ways they did not imagine.

Will Liam and Ola choose each other to save their needy hearts?


~ From the Author of Christmas Desire ~



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Love 


Stella 
   

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Wednesday, 5 February 2020

#Marriage - What Happens When You Are Upset? #AdviceCorner










Hello, 

It's time for another emotional therapy on Advice Corner.

Watching one TV series recently, I was shocked to see how quickly and how often people who are engaged run to their parents and siblings to discuss whatever problems they have with their fiancé/fiancée?

What do you hope to achieve by doing that?

Let me tell you what happens after you telltales;

1. You turn your parents & siblings against the person you want to marry or against your wife or husband.

2. After you settle your differences, your family will still hold grudges against the man or woman you love.

3. Trust breaks when your fiancé or fiancée, wife or husband finds out you've been sharing your private fights.

4. Your family will tell you what to do and how to handle the issues to favour you without consideration sometimes for your partner because you are family.


Think for one moment;

Who is in the relationship, you or your family?

When you run off to 'cry' to your family what you are saying is you are not matured enough to handle your problems. That's a shame. You need to GROW up fast.

If you are not matured, why are you in a serious relationship?

My Advice:

1. Speak about what bothers you with your fiancé/fiancée or your wife/husband

2. Take a break or step away to clear your head when the argument gets heated.


3. Train yourself to listen to each other.

4. Listening means you don't interrupt or second guess what the other person is saying even if you are fuming.

5. Hear what the other person is saying, not what you think they are saying.

6. Always remind yourself that you want to resolve issues because you have no back up plan or a get away plan from your engagement or marriage. 

7. Tell yourself you are 'stuck' in your marriage. That way, you always want to resolve your problems. My husband says this to me when I'm upset with him. It always calms me down. So, I say the same thing to him when he's annoyed with me. It works every time.


Read more: Show your wife or husband how much you love her or him. If you don't know how, click to read, 20 Ways to Express Love or 10 Ways to Show Love.



Try my emotional therapy tips on my Advice Corner and you will see deeper bonds form between you and your wife/husband through God's grace.

I hope you connect emotionally with your husband or wife so  you can experience a more fulfilling and loving bliss in your marriage.




Pictures are courtesy of Google.com


****** 


Check out GET UNDRESSED, my sizzling New Release!




by

Stella Eromonsere-Ajanaku

Release Date: 28th January 2020

Genre: Contemporary Romance/Interracial/BWWM

Pages: 160 (Paperback)

Word Count: 34K

Add on Goodreads

PURCHASE LINKS

Scroll down to read the blurb and a juicy-hot excerpt. 





 A Flirty & Feisty Romance Novel ~


A speed-dating event involves 2 strangers from 2 different continents. They’ve got six short weeks to make the biggest decision of their lives!
To date.
Get undressed &
Get engaged.
Or
Break up.
And go their separate ways. There is no second chance.

Nigerian nurse, Ola Gowon has no man who whispers sweet nothing in her ears at night or one who loves her for herself. Hopeful about the future, she shows up at the speed-dating event in Canada to find out her blind date has the exact attributes she stated she did not want in the guy of her dreams.  What will it take for her to find the man who will rock her world?

After losing hope of ever finding the woman of his dreams, heroic fireman, Liam Thomas shows up at the speed-dating event to find there has been a mix up. How else can someone explain why the woman standing in front of him as his blind date is the exact opposite of what he said he needed?

But when they start dating, differences erupt, jealousy rears its head and their hearts are stirred in ways they did not imagine.

Will Liam and Ola choose each other to save their needy hearts?


~ From the Author of Christmas Desire ~



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Before you go, please take a quick look at some of my books. 



If you have read any of my 28 hot romance books, please leave a review. because I love reading your comments.






 


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Thank you for visiting my blog today. Please leave comments, so I know you dropped by. 

You are deeply appreciated.


I wish you a romantic week.


Love 


Stella 
   

******



Flirty & Feisty Romance 



Our promise...is to deliver an intensely emotional experience you'll never forget.