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Friday, 10 April 2020

#Bride from #Africa ~ #AngolaBrides #AfricanBrides #Wedding





Hello Romance Lovers, I'm back with Brides From Africa after a long break.

I hope you are keeping busy while staying indoors due to the COVID 19 lockdown. 


This week, I have brought you Bride From Angola in central Africa. I found the traditional wedding custom exciting and unique. I hope you do too.

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Angola is a country located on the western Atlantic Coast of Central Africa. See the African map below. It has many neighbours including Namibia, Democratic Republic of Congo, Zambia and Republic of Congo.


Traditional Angolan Wedding Ceremony:



Angolan traditional marriage ceremonies vary from tribe to tribe. To demonstrate his willingness to marry their daughter and desire to be accepted into her family, the groom works in the bride’s father’s fields, or farms. 



In addition, he also performs various household chores for the bride’s mother as part of the traditional wedding practice.




Once the bride's family approves of the groom, an older woman from the groom's family starts training the bride on how to be a good wife.



During and after an Angolan traditional wedding, the Wedding consultant plays a prominent role.

On the actual day of the wedding, the wedding consultant carries the bride on her back to the groom’s house. However, in some cases, if she can’t physically carry the bride then she walks with her to the groom’s home.




The wedding consultant organizes the engagement, carries the bride to the wedding chamber, checks up on the couple the morning after their first night of marriage to make sure everything is well with the newly-wedded couple.


According to Angolan customary weddings, the groom’s family gives gifts to the bride’s family. For a groom who has a good source of income, he presents clothing and other gifts to the bride and her family in lieu of working in the farms, fields and around the house.





The groom has a duty to prepare the matrimonial bed. He spreads leaves from the negwelulu tree as these leaves are believed to intensify sexual excitement.


Photo is courtesy of Google.com




After the wedding ceremony there is a lot of merrymaking, singing, dancing with lots of food and drink served to the enjoyment of the guests.


Interestingly, after the wedding, the groom and his new mother-in-law are not allowed to meet again until after the couple’s first child is born.



Read more about  Traditional Angolan Marriage at Africanweddingtraditions.com

Photos are courtesy of Google.co.uk and Globalvoice.org

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Tuesday, 22 January 2019

#Brides From #Africa ~ #Botswanabrides #Africanbrides #Wedding


It is great to be back with my first Brides From Africa for 2019. 

This week, I bring you Brides From Botswana in Southern Africa









Botswana, one of Africa's landlocked countries is situated in the south-west part of the continent. To the west and north, it is bordered by Namibia, to the south, it is bordered by South Africa, Zimbabwe to the east, and shares a small part of its borders with Zambia in the northeast.







In Botswana, traditional marriage or wedding cannot take place without first taking part in what is known as the Patlo ceremony.


The Kgosi is the chief of the tribe who will also officiate at the wedding.

BEFORE PATLO:






The Bride and Groom announce their wedding 21 days prior to the wedding.  

During that time anyone who objects to their wedding makes it known to the Kgosi.  


A wedding cannot take place unless the bride and groom's parents agree.  In the absence of parents, there would be other family members such as grandparents, uncles or aunts, to stand in for parents and give their consent.  

Also, the groom is required to build a house for the couple to live in before the wedding can take place.





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egotiations are carried out back and forth between the bride and groom's aunts and uncles to determine the bridal price and how it will be paid out at the Patlo ceremony.


PATLO:

At the Patlo ceremony, the bridal price 'lobola' is handed over or paid out to the bride's family.


It is common in Botswana to do three celebrations; the traditional ceremony, the civil ceremony as well as the white wedding. 





However, some couples do the traditional and the civil ceremonies only. In Botswana, the society places a lot of respect on traditional ceremonies, so much so that if a couple only performs the civil ceremony, they are not considered married.



WEDDING:

For the women, traditional dress is required to be worn, which involves wearing a skirt and blouse, a shawl, and a head covering. 








The Kgosi have one rule. It is required that the women sit apart from the men, on the floor. In other words, while the men sit on chairs, the women sit on the hard concrete floor. 







The groom’s family goes through a long negotiating process to reach an agreement with the bride’s family. 





Afterward, the Lobola (bride price) is paid. Then the groom presents the cows for Lobola.





The normal bride price is 8 cows, but if the couple already have a child out of wedlock before the Lobola is paid, the price goes up to 9 cows (the extra cow paid is for “trespassing”).





Read more about Botswana Traditional Wedding here.

All photos are courtesy of Google.com

Thank you for visiting. Please leave me a comment.


If you have bridal photos to share from your place, send it to me via email and I'll share it here and give you credit. I love romance and swooning over bride photos is my hobby.



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Have a romantic week.


Love, 
Stella 
   
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