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This topic has been on my heart for weeks. You only have to open your eyes to see how marriages are tumbling downhill. A major factor is what I term, The Straying Eyes Syndrome.
Who is a forbidden woman or man?
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In a marriage, a woman who is not your wife or a man who is not your husband is a forbidden woman or man.
Therefore, men, you have no business desiring the beauty of a forbidden woman in your heart. And dear women, stop having ‘crush’ on other men. That is where your downfall starts.
Men, for your own good, do not let the forbidden woman capture you with her eyelashes because her price is only a loaf of bread. If she cheats on her husband with you, she is bound to have other lovers. It is the same story with a woman. If a man has the courage to have an affair with you, he is bound to have other lovers.
I have read that as a man, you need to preserve yourself from the smooth tongue of the adulteress. The same rule applies to a married woman. Keep away from adulterous men with lying tongues and charming smiles. They flash their wealth and make empty promises.
Of course, the decision to abide by your marital vows is yours to make. Not mine.
But in the event that you get tempted and decide to fall for her beauty or his charming smile, there are consequences.
Can a cheating man carry fire next to his chest and his clothes not be burned? Or can he walk on hot coals and his feet not be scorched?
Any man who decides to touch a married woman has her husband to answer to. For jealousy makes a man furious, and he will not spare when he takes revenge. Some men commit murder, others walk away, a few forgive. How do you know the outcome of your own foolishness?
In summary, anyone who commits adultery lacks sense because it is a self-destructive act. You will bear wounds, dishonour and the disgrace will not be wiped away.
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So pray for the grace to remain faithful, no matter your situation. Next time, I will blog about how to avoid the Forbidden Woman and Man.
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