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I’m Stella, Author & Publisher of 40 Flirty & Feisty Romance Novels. I’ve been married to my too-hot-to-handle, sexy husband for over 23 years, we have two adult children to God’s glory and live in London, UK. My romance stories feature sexy heroes who have hearts and souls and curvy heroines who are smart and know what they want. My lively, flawed characters who on their quest to find love will elevate your pulse rate, make your heart skip here & there, so that you’ll laugh, shed a tear sometimes and gasp for breath as their story unfolds. If an emotionally intense happy-ever-after is what you want coupled with a sprinkling of life lessons, turn to chapter one now & start reading. When I'm not writing, I'm having a laugh watching movies with my honey-boo, swimming like a star fish, or on mom duties with my grown-ups, or praising God in my own corner of the world. I dare you to read any or all of my steamy romance stories. I’ll love to hear from you.

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Thursday, 21 December 2023

Singles & Married: How to Handle Your Partner 's Anger 5 Steps to Follow

 


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Guys, welcome back to my Blog. Today's topic; How to Handle Your Partner's Anger is culled from my YouTube channel, DearStellaTV. Click the link to watch the video if you prefer.



I'm directing this topic to all the Single People, others in Relationships and to Married Couples as well. 

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If you're Single, it's important you watch how someone you're interested in dating reacts when upset, and observe exactly how they respond when you annoy them. 

Is he, or she a loose cannon? Does he, or she destroy you with his, or her tongue? Is he, or she quick to hit out with the hand, or in a hurry to throw things? If so, this is a RED FLAG.

Single People, the last thing you want is to be trapped in any sort of relationship with someone who can't control his, or her Anger. Someone without the ability to cap their anger is a ticking time bomb waiting to explode on you.

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Is that the type of relationship you want? Do you want to be in a relationship with someone who has no self-control in taming his, or her rage? Guarding your peace of mind and, enjoying a joyful, loving Marriage with a matured individual should be what you pray to have.

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Series: Brutal Cousins Book 1
Genre: Romance/Contemporary/Romantic Suspense/Mafia
Release Date: 9th May 2023
Pages: 277
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Just so you know, maturity and self-control have nothing to do with age.

On the other hand, if you're already married, or in a relationship with someone who has no idea how to control his, or her Anger, I've got 5 Practical Tips to help you cope with your partner's anger issues.

Anger in itself isn't evil because it's a powerful emotion that conveys how we feel about a situation, someone, or something said that hurts or triggers us.

Where Anger becomes a problem is when it's uncontrolled and it becomes, explosive, destructive and dangerous. Anger can lead to violence, hospitalization and even death in some cases.


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By the time Anger leads to Rage, say the husband pushes the wife too hard, and she hits her head against a sharp object in the house, bang!!! That tousle can have fatal consequences. 


It's important in your Relationship, or Marriage that you consider following these 5 Steps to handle your spouse's anger issues.



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Step 1: Reconcile with your husband, or wife after he, or she annoys or hurts you.
 

Step 2: Settle your quarrels quickly. Don't let it drag on for days, weeks and months. If you allow Anger fester, it can result in cracks in your relationship, or Marriage.

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Step 3: Pray for God to give you the grace to Forgive each other. When you're hurting, usually, you don't want to pray but that's when you need to RUN to the LORD in Prayer to heal your hurt.

Step 4: Forgive your spouse in advance. That means, be ready in your heart to Forgive your spouse before he, or she hurts you.


Step 5: When your spouse is in a good mood, encourage your partner to seek help. Suggest Anger Management Training to help them learn how to control their emotion.

It's my hope and prayer that you make Godly decisions for your lives and that you prosper in your Marriages.


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Stella’s an International Bestselling Author who loves writing compelling, suspense-filled steamy romance stories featuring irresistible arrogant heroes you love to hate but can’t resist and smart, strong-willed heroines who know how to handle their excesses. 

Stella’s married to her real-life hero, a gorgeous, God-fearing guy she still swoons over after 24 years and they’ve got two adult children and a young pet turtle who has a big personality. They live in the heart of London, UK. 

One click any of her 41 Flirty & Feisty Romance Novels and get hooked for good. Some of her bestselling books include: Hooked by one Curvy Girl, Longing for You, Irresistible Passion, By Christmas, His Ring. You can sign up for my Newsletter.



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Thank you for visiting my blog today.

Author & Publisher

Stella 




Tuesday, 20 September 2022

#Sexualabuse of KIDS in Families: What, When & How?

 




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Hello and welcome to my Blog, 

 

Sexual abuse in families is more common than anyone realizes or talks about. It's a terribly devastating disease that many families want swept under the rug, leaving the victims feeling like they are the problem. 

 

As you know by now, I love to raise awareness about difficult topics in marriages or relationships and I call it the way I see it. 

 

In the video, I'm discussing the What, When and How Sexual Abuse of KIDS happen in families.

 

If you have children, please watch and take notes. If you don't have kids, please share my video with your family, friends, colleagues, neighbours and loved ones who have children.

 

For my latest video on my Youtube channel: DearStellaTV, click on the link below to listen, learn a thing or two and share your comments.




If you know anyone who was sexually abused, show them nothing but LOVE and understanding, PRAY for them and don't cause them more pain or emotional hurt.

 

If you missed my New Release announcement, please play catch up now. Not Your Baby: A BWWM Sweet & Steamy Romance is the final book in my trilogy, The Billionaire Brothers Series. The series is hot & spicy and you can't stop reading once you start. It's not good, it's great!!!

Not Your Baby ~ A BWWM Sweet & Steamy Romance 

was Amazon #1 New Release!

Not Your Baby ~ A BWWM Sweet & Steamy Romance 

Author: Stella Eromonsere-Ajanaku


Release Date: 27th Jul 2022
Genre: Contemporary/Interracial/African-American/BWWM

Pages: 298
Word Count: > 85,000
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Not Your Baby is the final book in the trilogy, The Billionaire Brothers Series, an irresistible, sizzling romance story.

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Not a Fling ~ Book 1 
Not a Hookup ~ Book 2 
Not Your baby ~ Book 3



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Our promise...is to deliver an intensely emotional experience you'll never forget.

Before you go, escape to Pleasure Island with my larger-than-life characters in Not a HookupThe Billionaire Brothers Book 2 and allow Eva and Tucker entertain you as they go on the search for their own happy-ever-after.



Not a Hookup ~ A BWWM Sexy Romance:
The Billionaire Brothers Book #2 

Author: Stella Eromonsere-Ajanaku

Release Date: 30th September 2021
Genre: Contemporary/Interracial/African-American/BWWM
pages: 261
Word Count: > 70,000
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Better still, find all of Author Stella Eromonsere-Ajanaku's Flirty & Feisty Romance Novels below, if an emotionally intense happy-ever-after is what you want.  I dare you to read every one of my sizzling romance stories.


Not Your Baby
Not a Hookup
Not a Fling
Mr. Stranger
Hot Chase
Choose Me
Longing for You
Irresistible Driver
Christmas Desire
Tempted by the Princes – Book 1
Tempted by the Princess – Book 2
Hooked by one Curvy Girl – Book 1
Hooked by one Curvy Girl – Book 2
Naughty Promise
Christmas Seduction
Irresistible Passion
“Shocking Affair”
Guilty of Love
Your Christmas Gift
All of Me
“You’re Mine”
Enticed Forever
Naked Attraction
Indecent
His Ring
Forbidden Dance
Red Velvet Rose
Tempting Desire
Seduced Hearts
Lust
Stolen Kisses (Books 1 & 2)
Wild Whispers
Love at Christmas
Husband to Rent
Stolen Valentine Kiss (Holiday Series #1)
Kiss My Lips (Holiday Series #2)
The Historical & Paranormal Romance novels include:
Royal Cowries (Cowries Series #1)
His Choice (Cowries Series #2)


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I appreciate you and I wish you an adventurous and happy life.

Love 
Stella 
   


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