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I'm Stella Eromonsere-Ajanaku, the Author of over 25 intriguing Flirty & Feisty Romance Novels. I have been called the Romance Queen because I write about super-sexy heroes and flirty & feisty heroines. My stories are a breath of fresh air, dotted with unexpected twists and are set in fascinating Africa, enticing Europe and enchanting America. A scorching-hot burn is what you get when you read my books. My published novels include: Contemporary/Interracial/Multicultural Romance as well as Historical & Paranormal Romance Novels. If you want to laugh, cry and get a hot thrill on an emotional roller-coaster, read any of my books. Just so you know, I'm a romantic freak, mother of two fun - loving grown-ups, married to my amazing hero and best friend and we live in London, UK. If our children had their way, they would fill our home with a dozen pets. Swimming on my back like a star-fish is one of my skills. Please write or connect with me on social media. I love reading from you.

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Tuesday, 12 November 2019

Are You Living A Lie in Your #Marriage? #Deception #Dating






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Hello and Welcome to my Blog, 

It's time for some emotional therapy on Advice Corner.

Sometimes, weird questions occur to me as it did this morning. Today, I'm going to write in honest and clear terms about the craziness of living a lie within the walls of your marriage.

In any great relationship, trusting each other is a basic value. Without trust in a marriage, it slowly crumbles, until only cold ash is left behind after the divorce.

If you are married, I've got a few questions for you. 
1. Is your husband the biological father of all your children?

2. Do you go on secret dates with someone who is not your husband or wife?

3. Are you stealing from your husband or wife and diverting the money to a different account, to take care of your mistress or boyfriend or in case your marriage ends?

4. Do you exclude your husband or wife from decisions that involve the family?

5. Do you omit or skip over details of events you know your husband or wife will find annoying or truths you know will hurt them? 


If you answered YES to any of the questions, you are living a lie in your marriage or relationship.

Is it wrong to lie? You know the answer to that one and it is a big YES.

Will you get caught? As long as there is night and day, your lies will erupt in your face on a day you don't expect.

The good news is, it's not too late. All hope is not lost if you want to change. 

You can start doing the following to rebuild trust:

1. Teach yourself to speak ONLY the TRUTH every time you open your mouth. Your first instinct might be to cover up, but close your mouth, pause and say exactly what happened.


2. Decide to HONOUR your vows. Turn down opportunities to have an affair. Don't lead others on because your marriage is in trouble. Work on healing your marriage ad building a good home.


3. If one of your children isn't your husband's child, it is time to CONFESS. As grievous as your offence is, don't wait until your husband finds out from a third person. Don't deceive yourself, the truth will come out, no matter how long it takes. Your shame and humiliation will not be hidden. It's better you tell him yourself, today. He might kick you out of your marital home, but the guilt on your conscience will ease.

4. Stop pilfering your husband or wife's money to fund your secret habits, mistress or toyboy. The day you are caught, you will be shamed. Your secret is waiting to explode if you don't put a stop to it.

5. In the past, I made decisions about buying furniture in our home without involving my husband until after I had made the payment. This caused friction. On my part, I thought I was doing the right thing because we simply needed to change the furniture and I went ahead to replace them. But it was not so simple. That was when I learnt that buying the furniture was not the problem. It was the fact I did not discuss it and agree on it before going ahead. 

Including your husband or wife in small and big decisions gives either of you a sense of belonging, builds trust and indicates respect for each other.

6. Don't lie by omission. 

It's the same thing as lying outright. Half-truths is = to lies, period. It breeds distrust. 

The first question your husband or wife will ask when they eventually find out is, "Why didn't you tell me?"

You will then stammer, cry and plead for understanding by saying, "I should have told you," or "I wanted to tell you," or "I tried to tell you."

What do you gain by lying to the man or woman you married? The person you live with? The person you swore to love forever?

By Living a Lie, You;

1. You are filled with GUILT. 

2. You are EDGY and jumpy, hoping never to get caught.

3. You live in FEAR, because deep in your heart, you know the day of reckoning is not far off.

4. You HATE yourself for what you are doing.

5. You feel POWERLESS and unable to break free from the lies.

There is a way out:

1. Tell the TRUTH today. 

2. Face the consequences.

3. Beg for forgiveness, until you are forgiven.

4. Forgive yourself and start over with a clean conscience. 

We all make mistakes and yours isn't the worst.

5. Ask God for forgiveness. Confess with your mouth that Jesus Christ is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead to save you from your sins and you will be saved. Romans 10 vs 9-11.

A fresh start is better than living a lie. 

In marriage, you are to help each other heal, not break each other.

I hope you connect emotionally with your husband or wife so  you can experience a more fulfilling, happy and loving bliss in your marriage.



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Tuesday, 29 October 2019

#NewRelease - Christmas Desire ~ #BWWM #Romance #Holiday









by

Stella Eromonsere-Ajanaku

Release Date: 24th October 2019

Genre: Contemporary Romance/Interracial/BWWM

Pages: 247 (Paperback)

Word Count: 80K

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Hello Romance Lovers, 

It is my joy to announce the release of my last book for 2019.


Christmas Desire by Stella Eromonsere-Ajanaku
is Amazon No 1 New Release!


Christmas DESIRE ~ A BWWM Sweet & Steamy Romance is now available on Amazon, iBooks, Nook, Kobo, Smashwords, Okada Books and other retailers.


Christmas Desire by Stella Eromonsere-Ajanaku
is Amazon No 1 New Release!



The most amazing news is that my new release, Christmas DESIRE is now Amazon No 1 New Release!!! 


Christmas Desire by Stella Eromonsere-Ajanaku
is Amazon No 1 New Release!


In this Sweet & Steamy Romance, Jensen Bronx, a new sexy hot-shot from New York meets his match in Eboni Houston a top corporate female lawyer from Charleston WV.










 A Flirty & Feisty Romance Novel ~


I want her…even after she says no.

I know his secret…yet I want to be with him.

Eboni

My job is great. Yet my personal life is a mess. I’ve got trust issues. Who doesn’t? But I need a boyfriend by Christmas. Don’t ask why. Then a new client from New York walks in just before I turn 37. Not just any client. The cocky, super-attractive, sexy, too-darn-rich type that can get me fired if I screw up. His hard-to-ignore hazel eyes stalk me. I recognize him from someplace, so I ignore him for my own good. Then he asks me to fly in his private jet to visit his family during the holidays. Who says I can’t live a little as long as my lie is mine to keep? Then drama unfolds…as my lie breaks out.

Can I trust him with the truth?

Christmas Desire by Stella Eromonsere-Ajanaku
is Amazon No 1 New Release!


Jensen

At almost forty, I’m the President of Jacuar Petroleum. I make things happen and, I find women attention-seeking and shallow-minded. Driven by a business need, I fly to Charleston WV. Eboni, the ravishing, sharp-minded, curly-haired lawyer does not give me a glance. Not once during the entire meeting. In fact, she rejects me without breaking a sweat. I push her curvy buttons. Let’s just say my actions have consequences. So, I invite her home to meet my family. I need her “No” to turn into an, “Oh Yes, Mr. Bronx”. Then I find out she has something damaging on me. Drama unfolds…as her lie also erupts…

Can I trust her?

With Christmas Day spinning closer, will Eboni and Jensen get their Christmas Desire?


~ From the Author of Tempted by the Princess ~






With hooded eyes, Jensen let her go, slowly. “I don’t care what people think. But I care about you. So, I’ll play by your rules inside this building. Don’t expect more of that from me outside these walls, Ms Eboni.”

Her nipples twisted and tautened in the cups of her strapless bra. 

Eboni moved away from him and went to stand by the window overlooking the city. The city views from here was worth the stress she put in bursting her ass.

“Tell me about your dinner date and I’ll forget about your no-show.” He stood beside her with his hands pushed back inside his pants pockets.

A vicious hammer landed on her chest. She flicked her head to glance at him. Smeared red with her lipstick, his lips seemed fuller. “That’s not a fair deal and you know it.”

“It’s the only one I’m offering. Take it, Ms Eboni.”

Christmas Desire by Stella Eromonsere-Ajanaku
is Amazon No 1 New Release!

“You’ve got my lipstick smudged around your lips.”

He chuckled. “Do you want to wipe it off with your lips?”

A savage tremor ran down her spine, so she wrapped her arms around her body. 

“Yes, I want to, but I won’t.” Inhaling quickly, she puffed out air. “I don’t want to chat about my dinner date with you, Mr. Bronx.”

“Cut the intro and go straight to the details. Who is he? Where did you have dinner? How long have you dated him? I want to know everything. Don’t skip anything.”

“Why?”

“I’m asking the questions.”




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In this exciting romance, a co-yacht owner, Kemi Adenuga has hired a private waiter, Clifton Rutherford to serve her food and drinks, but fire starts when their eyes clash and his fingers skim hers.


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You are deeply appreciated.


I wish you a romantic week.


Love 


Stella 
   

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