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I’m Stella, Author & Publisher of 40 Flirty & Feisty Romance Novels. I’ve been married to my too-hot-to-handle, sexy husband for over 23 years, we have two adult children to God’s glory and live in London, UK. My romance stories feature sexy heroes who have hearts and souls and curvy heroines who are smart and know what they want. My lively, flawed characters who on their quest to find love will elevate your pulse rate, make your heart skip here & there, so that you’ll laugh, shed a tear sometimes and gasp for breath as their story unfolds. If an emotionally intense happy-ever-after is what you want coupled with a sprinkling of life lessons, turn to chapter one now & start reading. When I'm not writing, I'm having a laugh watching movies with my honey-boo, swimming like a star fish, or on mom duties with my grown-ups, or praising God in my own corner of the world. I dare you to read any or all of my steamy romance stories. I’ll love to hear from you.

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Thursday, 22 March 2018

Are You Dealing With Stress in Your Marriage -2 #Staymarried




 

A few weeks ago, I blogged about what you can do to deal with stress. Click here to read the post.

Today, I want to share popular solutions to handling stress that you must avoid.

Avoiding these available steps is for your own good, not mine. I assume you want a long-term solution, not an answer that leads you to more difficult problems or even ruin your health and life.

So when you are stressed by your husband, wife, children, work, friends, colleagues or family in general,

AVOID THESE ACTIONS

1. Drinking/Alcohol Abuse 

The organs (kidney, liver, heart and brain) in your body are important, don't poison them.


You will end up sick or in rehabilitation and your wife or husband might turn her or his back on you.


2. Smoking packets of cigarettes or cigars

If you don't need your lungs, donate them to people who want to stay healthy. Quit smoking, if you are a smoker. If you are not, don't START. Smoking causes diseases in nearly every organ of the body. If you don't believe me, read more here.


Lung cancer or its close relative maybe knocking on your body.


3. Drug Abuse

Drug abuse affects the body and the mind. It causes distorted thoughts and emotions. Read more here. 


You might end up penniless, homeless and lose everyone you love.
 

4. Experimenting with pills
 
These pills supposedly makes you forget your problems. Ha! That's a huge lie. When the effect of the pills wear off, your problems will be waiting for you where you abandoned them.



5. Running away

 
Do you run away and hope the stress and problems all go away too? The reality is that your problems won't go anywhere except you deal with them.


6. Lying

Lies have short legs. Have you not seen or heard that every lie will be discovered, anyway? You lose trust and your relationship might not survive your strings of lies.

WHAT TO DO INSTEAD


Face your problems. Deal with them.


Remember, whether you are rich or poor, young or old, as long as you are human, you will go through stress.

 
Many people handle stress differently. Some people bottle things inside, hiding how they really feel from the world. While others take out their stress on their family and friends.
 
Instead of taking out your stress on your wife or husband, you can  now do the following. Find out what you can do here.

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I have got GREAT NEWS!!!


GUILTY of LOVE is a story that will capture your heart from start to end.


It is available on Amazon, Smashwords & Okada Books for #99c. Get your paperback from Amazon.

 

Genre: Romance/Contemporary/Interracial Romance

Release Date: Sunday 28th January 2018

Word Count: Approx. 70,000 words

Price: #99c



 
 
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You are deeply appreciated.

I wish you a romantic week.

Love 
Stella 
 
 
 
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