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I got a WhatsApp Message yesterday and I just knew I had to share it with you all because I agree with every line of the post. Besides, you know I cannot pass over any chance to talk about sex in marriage anyway.
My input in this post are in italics only.
Here is the message from Pastor Khathide (Ugandan) on Enjoying Sex in Marriage
A lot of people don't associate sex with God. People tend to associate sex with Satan and darkness, as if sex in marriage is not holy!!
1. Sex in Marriage is HOLY.
The Bible is explicit when it comes to sex. Sex is holy within marriage, and there is no prescribed style. Nowhere in the Bible does it say that the missionary position is the only sexual style for couples to enjoy.
2. Not discussing sex in a relationship leads to divorce!! And I would add that it leads to infidelity.
Pastor Khathide has counselled women who have complained saying: "My husband treats me as if I were his sister."
There was another woman who complained: "I'm tired of getting sex fortnightly, like a salary."
Khathide told her she was lucky to be getting sex fortnightly, because some wives only get it on big days, like elections.
Sounds funny I guess, but it is true. Some married couples have sex once in a blue moon!
Many husbands leave their wives to seek sexual pleasures in Hillbrow.
Have you ever asked yourself what those women in Hillbrow have that you (a married woman) don't?
Wives have become very frigid and even sleep with their panties.
3. If you're a married woman, you should sleep NAKED and let your bum touch your husband's.
Today, you find men going out of their way to get a glimpse of a vagina. They page through magazines and even go to lingerie departments in stores hoping to see what's hidden under panties because their wives hide it from them.
4. Marriage is about being free with your body in front of your partner.
5. A woman should parade naked and do some modelling to tempt her husband.
There are many married women who don't know what their husbands' penises look like.
She only feels it when he enters her. They've never touched it, let alone seen it, because the husband switches off the lights before undressing.
6. A penis is a wife' s toy - she is supposed to play with it.
7. Khathide blames couples for not making time for sex and complaining about being tired after a day's work.
You find many couples who've been sexually starved for years.
8. Be reminded that God created sex for procreation and also for pleasure.
9. You can't marry and not have a good time in bed.
Marriage means you get to have a jolly exciting time exploring each other's bodies to give yourselves maximum pleasure.
After sixteen years, my husband still shocks me with new pleasurable tricks. Thank God for the gift of sex in marriage. I love and enjoy sex with my husband. I crave it!!! And I'm not shy to confess it. I'm married, thank God!
The Big Question:
WHO SAID YOU CAN ONLY HAVE SEX AT NIGHT?
Why can't you drive home during lunch and have a quickie SEX with your wife?
10. An unplanned afternoon sex provides adventure, spontaneity and fun.
We're all equal in sex - it's not just about a woman satisfying a man.
You have to satisfy each other.
11. Age has nothing to do with sex. The older you are the more you should enjoy sex.
Have you ever seen a woman who has been satisfied in bed?
Notice how she glows and becomes energetic?
May the Lord Bless you as you enjoy and explore sex with your partner within the marriage walls.
This is the 'Whole Truth, Nothing But The Truth. Once you read this you have to keep it going.
If YOU read this post, do this:
A) Make sure your spouse reads this post (if you are married).
B) Also send this message to all your married friends, grandmas & grandpas. Send it to your married children. You may just be saving a marriage from divorce.
In summary, SEX in Marriage is IMPORTANT and married couples have the license to ENJOY this great gift.
Peace be unto your marriage and mine. Let love and sex fill your marriage with continuous joy.
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