Friday, 22 September 2017

Do You Sometimes Feel Lost? #Advicebench

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So you feel lost sometimes? It is okay. You are not alone.

I watched a movie last night with my husband, titled The Catholic Priest. I was gladly surprised to learn that even Priests sometimes feel lost.

As long as we are human beings, we do not know the future. And uncertainty brings fear. Consequently, sometimes we feel lost about many things.

What You Can Do

A) About You

1. Look at yourself in the mirror, smile and give yourself a thumb up. sign 
2. Say to yourself every now and again "Well done!"
3. For example, it is your birthday and no one remembers, not even your boyfriend or husband. It is not the end of the world. Go out, buy yourself the gift you want and sing, 'happy birthday' to yourself.

4. You envy your friends, colleagues or others because they wear designer clothes or carry a designer bag. If you can't afford a Gucci Bag, buy a replica or a Zucci bag (unknown label)!!! The men can't tell the difference!
5. If you can't afford Brazilian hair extensions, (I don't see why anyone in their right minds would buy a wig or hair extension for £1000 anyway), buy a beautiful cheaper option. Your husband or boyfriend would not know one from the other.

6. Look good and feel good and you will be validated. Stop waiting for other people to make you feel good. You will WAIT forever. They have their insecurities as well.
7. Looking good does not mean buying the most expensive clothes or shoes on the planet! It means putting it all together nicely, wearing a smile and walking like you are wearing designers! Get it? I do it and no one is the wiser. Go shopping or order from online sites that offer sales or sell at rock bottom prices.
8. Smile: Take good care of yourself at all times, love yourself and SMILE.

9. Celebrate yourself: Open a bottle of wine, hold a  large piece of chicken in
one hand, whistle to yourself and sing in your heart. When your husband asks you what's happening, tell him you are excited about who you are and about how awesome God is in your life.

10. Be Thankful: Are you too big to praise the God who gave you life and sustains you? Then go to the mortuary, put an alarm clock there, go back in the morning and see how many dead bodies wake up to the sound of the alarm clock.

"Only great fools are ungrateful".
Be thankful for who you are, what you are and where you are. You are not a mistake!!!

Ques: How many people go to bed thanking God because of you?

11. Help Others: Stop throwing yourself a pity party and start helping those around you.
12.Be Humble and throw away pride. Proud people do not know God.

13. Be Content: If you do not have what you need today, you will have  it tomorrow. Do not get high blood pressure just to keep up with the joneses.
 B) About Your Marriage

1. Worry Less: If you kill yourself because your husband committed adultery, he will marry the other woman. Prove to the other woman you can keep your home.

2. Stay Committed: Once you make up your mind to get married, make up your mind to stand by your husband or wife no matter what you go through. 

3. Know this truth, no one will hurt you more than your husband or wife. Make up your mind to forgive him or her in advance.

4. Marry your friend because he or she will invade your privacy. Marry someone who knows your weaknesses and decides to cope.

5. Pray for your husband or wife and help him or her to succeed.

6. Wives, submit to your husbands and respect them. Note: Submission means strength put under control, not wife slavery.

7. Husbands, love and cherish your wives.

8. If a husband or any man lays his hands on his wife or girlfriend, he needs psychiatric attention urgently.

C) About Your Children

1. Give your children spiritual values, societal and cultural values. Teach your children your language. Love your child. Pray for your children.

2. Do not kill yourself because of any rebellious child. Go on your knees, pray and never give up.

3. For example, if your daughter gets pregnant or your son impregnates a girl, you should rebuke her, (or him) cry if you must, but do not abandon her or throw her out.

Culled from Pastor Funke Adejumo's talk on Living the Fullness. I love listening to this woman, she is absolutely practical and down-to-earth.

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Monday, 18 September 2017

#Romance #Quotes #Monday182


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On Romance Quotes Monday, there are three sexy quotes for you to share with the love of your life this week.


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RomQuote #3

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Sunday, 17 September 2017

All of Me: “I’m going to make you mine" #Newrelease #Romance #99c

Hello Romance Readers,

It is release day! God is Awesome! 

All of Me ~ A Sweet & Steamy Romance is out now on Amazon, Okada Books & Smashwords.

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"My Neighbour is sexy and irresistible..." so says Roli Boyo, in All of Me.

Read all about Jermaine Tucker, my alpha male African American hero and the feisty Roli Boyo in my Sweet & Steamy Romance. 

Whirlwind currents barged her head as his tongue set hers on fire. Flames singed her mouth, rushing downward to her chest, tightening her nipples to erect tips.

In his eyes, a glow so bright oozed from their depths, slowly turning them into hot coals.

Her fingers strayed to his nipples, making them do her bidding, moaning when the tips peaked within her grip.

Groaning into her mouth, Jermaine’s tongue asked for more, demanded more, and sucked every inch of her inner lips until her legs wobbled. Then he lowered his head, his eyes narrowing to sensational slits.

Little flames burnt her throat and she swallowed.

“No way,” she begged. “Jermaine, you can’t go inside my bra.”

“Look into my eyes.”

Lifting her head, Roli glanced up at him.

He brushed her lips with one finger, then two, before he swallowed her mouth.

Tiny shivers snaked down her back…stretching further down.

“I’m going to make you mine…and I don’t give a damn what you say or what sounds right. Tell your runaway boyfriend his time is up. Because you’ve made me a man with a single mission.”

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“Incredibly hot, pushy & a real hunk, my neighbour, Jermaine is so in my face, I can hardly breathe on my own. He has a body any woman dreams about with hard lines, tight ass, muscled with tattoos along his arms and inviting lips that keeps me gasping. Yet, I know he’s wrong for me, but tell that to my aroused body as night after night, his chiselled figure pulls me closer in my dreams. I’ve got to remind myself Jermaine double-crossed me, plus my secret taunts me, so there’s no way we can be together. Not a chance!”

~ Roli Boyo

“I’m in London to find a woman who’s even-tempered, homely and has not given her heart to any other man. Someone who wants me with her whole heart. By a twist of fate, I run into my next-door neighbour, Roli, a stunning model who speaks her mind no matter what. Although she has a list of exes’ and a boyfriend I’ve not seen, she makes my chest tighten and I want to capture her full lips with mine. But she has done something I can’t accept. Yet my feet keep dragging me to her front yard even though I know nothing can come out of our escapades. Absolutely nothing!”

~ Jermaine Tucker

Will Roli and Jermaine find comfort in each other’s arms?

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