Thursday, 7 December 2017

Share Love at Christmas #Dating #Books #ASMSG




As Christmas approaches, many relationships and marriages hit large potholes and storms because of the strain of the festive season. By the time the new year rolls in, they are sleeping in separate rooms.

Money Problems:

Many families go on a spending spree, putting immense strain on their finances even when they cannot afford it.

Extended Family Pressure:

Deciding who to visit is another source of tension as wives and husbands clash over whose family gets invited to dinner or sleepover. Others agonize on whether to visit the wife’s parents or the husbands. If the wife’s family–for example–has been a pain in the year, this is the time for the husband to rub it in their faces by boycotting them entirely. This causes arguments and if communication breaks down, a joyous season turns into a time of disharmony and stress.

Separation:

Wives or husbands may begin to toy with the idea of wanting their own space as they find their spouse overbearing and stubborn at this time.
Seduced Hearts ~ 99c

Show Love at Christmas:

The question on my mind is, do families really know the focus of Christmas?

Love at Christmas ~ 99c
Christmas season celebrates the birth of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ who came to save us from our sins. It is a time to share the good news that we are saved and loved by God. It is about sharing love, joy, gifts, peace and smiles with others, starting from our immediate family to everyone else, including strangers and the less fortunate.

Wives and Husbands:

1. First, decide and agree on which of your family members and friends you want to buy gifts for this year according to your available resources.

2. Don’t go into debt because you want to please others. If you can’t afford to buy gifts, then buy Christmas Cards and attach huge smiles to each card as you hand them out.

3. I suggest you buy your Christmas gifts early to take away the stress of last minute shopping.

Your Christmas Gift ~ 99c
4. If you have issues with your in-laws on either side, I suggest you go away for Christmas with your husband or wife and children. You could go to a hotel, or out of the country, so you make fun and lasting memories with your immediate family – they come first.

5. Wives, talk and listen to your husbands. Believe me, I know how hard this is, but if you must pinch yourself to remind you of the need to communicate well, do it. Have you bought a gift for your husband and kids? What are you waiting for?

6. If you have teenagers (I have two), don’t bother going out to buy them gifts. They would usually reject anything you buy. Instead, ask them what they want for Christmas. Get ready to spend about £80 - £140, thanks to the expensive trainers from Nike.

6. Husbands, this is a great season to spend time with your wife and children. Have you bought your wife a Christmas present? Now is the time to pick one gift you know she would love.

7. Above all, remember, Jesus Christ is the reason for the season. Discuss what He means to your family and the world. Sing Christmas Carols, attend Church, Praise God for His mercy, protection and generosity.

I wish you a Merry Christmas.

Before you go, don’t forget to download my 3 Hot Christmas Romance Stories from Amazon, Smashwords & Okada Books, or order Paperback from Amazon or Createspace.

I wish you many happy and fruitful years in your marriage.

More grace from God.

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Monday, 4 December 2017

#Romance #Quotes #Monday193





Hello Romance Lovers,

Welcome to Romance Quotes Monday! 

I hope you had a wonderful weekend.

Find three sexy quotes for you to share with your best half this week.

Enjoy.


RomQuote #1 




RomQuote #2 



   
RomQuote #3



All quotes are from Bing.com


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"I thoroughly enjoyed Femi and Kimani's story. It was intriguing from the very first page... Christmas is a beautiful time for romance and second chances. Stella gives a great gift for the season."

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Genre: Romance/Contemporary/Interracial/African American/Christmas Romance

Release Date: Tuesday 14th November 2017

Word Count: 69,934 words

Price: 99c only



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Wednesday, 29 November 2017

Are You Broken or Did Your Spouse #Cheat? #Wedding


Many married men and women say they would never forgive their spouse if they cheated.

I don't know what I would do if it ever happened to me. I don't think anyone really knows what they would do in advance.

But I have seen many women forgive their cheating husbands one or two slip-ups. It only becomes harder to forgive when he becomes a serial cheat. It becomes a heart-breaking marriage.



Even though some women forgive their cheating husbands, they usually don't forget his 'mistake', reminding him every chance they get.

Many women have kicked out their husbands for cheating. Can anyone blame them? No, because we are not in their shoes.




Can YOU forgive and forget an infidelity?

Forgetting means it does not hurt when you recall the mistake. And you don't bring it up to hurt your spouse.

For married men, the story is different. Men in general find it almost impossible to forgive the slip-ups if their wives cheat. Ego plays a big part.

And also, infidelity is the ONLY sin stated in the Bible as the basis for asking out of a marriage if you cannot cope. However, we are encouraged to FORGIVE as many as 70 X 7 times if someone hurts us. Infidelity was not listed as one of the mistakes that should not be forgiven.

The Truth

Look at it this way. If your wife or husband is SORRY, and is willing to work on being faithful and asks for your forgiveness and for both of you to work for the good of your marriage, maybe you should open your heart to the possibility of getting past the horrible mistake.

Remember, the OTHER WOMAN or MAN is the stranger, not you.

You are married and you vowed to stay married for better or worse. Well, your wife or husband just dug some 'worse' rubbish on you by cheating. 

Are you going to remember your wedding day and your spoken Vow?


As hurtful and painful as it is, it is NOT the end of the world.

How do I know? Well, I was cheated on a long time ago (when I was in Uni), years before I met my husband and got married.

It was a life-changing experience for me. It was like someone took a sword and stabbed my heart. 

Do you know how I got HEALED and started again and now have the best marriage for the past eighteen years?

I met someone special, someone who loved the wretched, broken me. After I asked him for help, he took my hand in his and HEALED my heart and my soul and I became brand new. His name is JESUS CHRIST. 

Are you broken? Are you hurt deep in your soul by the one person you thought was your main stay? 

You Can

Cry as hard as you can, but DON'T GIVE UP.

Do Not

1. Don't harden your heart.

2. Don't go drinking or smoking.

3. Don't go on a revenge binge. 

Do

1. Just sit in the quietness of your room, pour your heart out to JESUS CHRIST. You don't need to have known him yet to do this, believe me. 

2. Just talk about your pain, your disappointments, your mistakes and ask him to heal your broken heart and soul.

Is it that easy? Oh yes. 

3. When you feel up to it, ask him to help you forgive your husband or wife or friend who betrayed and hurt you.

Life-Transforming Good News
1. Download a free Bible App on your smartphone and quickly read Romans chapter 10 verse 9-10.

2. Afterwards, flip to Philippians chapter 4 verse 6.

3. Read all about Jesus Christ in the Books of Matthew, Mark, Luke and John.

Remember 

1. We all make mistakes because we are not perfect. You do too. And I do. 

2. But we can choose to forgive or we can ask for help to forgive.

I ask for help from God to help me forgive when I find it difficult. You can do the same too.

3. The choice is yours. 

4. But happiness comes from letting go of hurts and pain locked away in your heart and bones. 

5. So do yourself a huge favour by forgiving your husband or wife of their infidelity and praying for them to overcome their weaknesses and to remain faithful.

My Sweet News

My 18th Wedding Anniversary is this weekend, by God's grace and they have been the most blissful, joyous, loving and happiest years of my life. And I'm looking forward to having a fabulous time with my Sweetheart. Thank God for my marriage.

I wish you many happy and fruitful years in your marriage.

More grace from God.



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Monday, 27 November 2017

#Romance #Quotes #Monday192





Hello Romance Lovers,

Welcome to Romance Quotes Monday! 

How did you enjoy your weekend?

Find three romance quotes for you to share with your loved one this week.

Enjoy.


RomQuote #1 




RomQuote #2 



   
RomQuote #3


All quotes are from Bing.com

Have you downloaded my new release yet? Grab Your Christmas Gift ~ A Sweet & Sexy Romance for 99c.

Here is one reader's review on Amazon:

"I enjoyed this book a lot as it wasn’t your typical let’s meet around Christmas and fall in love and jump into bed. The chemistry between the two characters was well written and you felt like you were there for every fight and make up session. You watched as they grew as a couple over a time period of a year, yup a year not a few weeks or a month. So it was more believable to me. But this story does start and end with Christmas so grab this quick holiday read to brighten yours."

Download or buy a paperback copy of Your Christmas Gift from;





Genre: Romance/Contemporary/Interracial/African American/Christmas Romance

Release Date: Tuesday 14th November 2017

Word Count: 69,934 words

Price: 99c only


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I wish you a romantic week.

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